My mom used to say that when we were younger, the
Thanksgiving meal was always a bit of a letdown. Anyone who has watched Standard 1’s and 2’s
eat lunch can imagine why. My mom had
spent hours preparing turkey, all the sides, dressing, and usually a couple of
pie options for later. She would direct
traffic to make sure the table was cleaned off, set, and ready to go. We would gather around, pray, share our meal,
and us kids would be off playing 20 minutes later, if we lasted that long. Then, when we were still too young to help,
she would be left to clean up while my dad watched football.
I like to think, whether it’s true or not, that the letdown
eased over time. As we grew older and
took more of the responsibilities on and began to share in the meal
preparation, the time we spent together took on a larger importance and was
more spread out over the day. Then, when
the meal was over and we took over clean-up duties, she could relax. When everything was cleaned up, we could all
relax.
As a matter of fact, the day after Thanksgiving is the only
day, aside from Christmas day, that I think we spend most of in our
pajamas. Sleeping in in the morning and
hanging out at home are the only priorities of the day. We usually break out the Christmas music and
start our decorating for the season.
Very rarely do we actually leave the house, and only if there is
something of highest importance that we need to get. After the whirlwind of activity the previous
days have given us, it is nice to take a bit of a break.
Indeed, the day after Thanksgiving becomes a sort of Sabbath
for us. I’m not talking the “do no work”
sort of Sabbath that is observed in the Old Testament, although there is one
Sabbath observance in the Old Testament that mirrors Thanksgiving well,
actually. In Exodus 16, Moses is in the
desert with his people. There is a verse
that says “He said to them, “This is what the Lord commanded: ‘Tomorrow is to be a day of Sabbath rest, a holy Sabbath
to the Lord. So bake what you want to bake and boil what you want to boil. Save
whatever is left and keep it until morning.’”
With all the baking and boiling that goes on at
Thanksgiving, there are always leftovers for the next day, which only helps
make the Sabbath easier to keep. Our
Sabbath is not about doing no work as the Old Testament demands, but is more
about spending time to slow down and simply be with God. The day after Thanksgiving is a day as much
about togetherness as Thanksgiving Day itself.
It is a day to slow down and remember the family God has given us and to
begin to prepare for the Advent season.
Let’s pray.
Father,
You command us to observe the day of rest, by keeping it holy. You made this
commandment for our benefit that we might be renewed spiritually and
physically. Help us to be careful to set this day apart as we honor You in, as
we spend quality time with our family members, and as we take time to rest from
our labor. In the name of Jesus we pray. Amen.
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